ET History & Sexuality

ET History & Sexuality

This is Germane. Since there were two subject matters advertised for this evening, we will integrate them together. Now one was the idea of the sexuality of some of the races that are very close to you, in your galactic family and another subject was that of galactic heritage. What we're going to do is to talk about some of the sexual belief systems of several races that are close to you. This will also illuminate the particular societal structures that each of these races have so you'll get a little bit of both - galactic heritage and sexuality.

Orion Civilization - Conflict

We might as well begin with the polarized point of view. We're going to begin first with a civilization called Orion - that is how you see it from your Earth plane. We're going to talk a little bit about how their societal structure affects you on Earth at this time. First, recognize that these particular civilizations we are talking about represent either your physical forefathers or forefather energies. This is the energy, the belief systems that you as a civilization have been exposed to during your infancy as a species. As you know, whatever energy you are exposed to as infants, you have a good possibility of adopting in adulthood. So let us start with Orion.

Basically we'll outline to you the philosophies of the Orion civilization. First of all, the Orion civilization was based on the idea of conflict. They were one of the areas of your galactic family that was committed to resolving polarity or conflict. So the general dynamic is as follows: The Empire was the dominant force within the Orion civilization. This Empire took it upon itself to be responsible for its citizens. That responsibility often meant they would use force and other methods you would perhaps think did not have much integrity. For any of you who have seen the Star Wars trilogy, the Empire in the movie is kindergarten compared to the actual expression of this Empire energy within the Orion civilization.

The Empire vs. the Black League Stalemate

So you have the active Empire individuals, you have individuals who were the subjects of the Empire and you have a very widespread underground group who resisted the Empire, who were the freedom fighters. These individuals we've called the Black League. "Black" is not meant to be negative; it simply means the idea of absorption or being hidden - they did not want to be found. If they were found, they would be annihilated. Thus you can see the dynamic. These resisters were fighting the Empire and both the resisters and the Empire were using the same methodologies with which to bring about their desires. In a tug-of-war, for instance, if the weight is balanced on both sides, neither person is going to win. It took them a very, very long time to realize that all they were doing was holding a balance through the amount of negativity each group placed on the other. That's the general dynamic of the Orion civilization.

Many of you on Earth, incarnationally speaking, have connections with the Orion civilization and have come here in order to break certain cycles, certain patterns of conflict. Earth was a place where you could come, lose your identity or your memory of Orion and start again. The idea of losing your memory has actually been something that's worked for you rather than against you, because if you had kept your entire memory intact, some of the memories (especially the Orion memories) would be quite intense, to say the least, and even a bit scary for some of you.

Orion Monogamous Relationships

Now let us talk about the relationships in the Orion civilization. You will find that the nature of personal relationships in any society is a product of the dynamics of that society - your civilization included. This means that the Orion relationships were a product of their dynamic of conflict. So you can imagine that the Orion relationships would be very, very intense in a certain way. The Orions have what we could call monogamy, although it's different from the monogamy you have upon your world. The Orions mate for life. The relationship between Orions and their mate is of number one importance in the lifetime of the individual. This is because of the societal dynamics within the Orion system. The relationship dynamic is primarily that of the Black League civilization (the resistance groups), because this is the energy that you on Earth, at least for now, resonate with the most. So this is the one we will talk about.

When an Orion is the equivalent of a teenager at puberty, they already have their antennae out looking for a mate, but it's not necessarily the way it is on your planet. There's a recognition - an instant recognition - when two people come together who are to be mated, and there's no doubt of that recognition. During the period of time when one is seeking a mate, there is no (to use a colloquialism) sleeping around, for an Orion is not aroused by anyone who is not their mate. So when the mate is finally found, the arousal and the excitement come because the person is their mate. In your civilization you are attracted to someone first and then you decide whether or not to make them your mate. This is the opposite.

This is for a very specific reason, born out of the conflict of their civilization: They have learned through thousands of years not to trust. Very often other forces infiltrate their reality, and so they've learned never to allow themselves to be vulnerable except with individuals who are very, very close to them. The mate is literally the one person with whom they allow themselves total vulnerability. This is why an individual is excited only by the mate because they literally cannot allow themselves to be vulnerable with anyone else. That is the energy dynamic behind how their relationships are structured.

Surrogates

So, you ask, is there ever infidelity in the Orion system? It depends on your definition of infidelity. There is no "sneaking around." That is not an idea that is compatible with the Orion philosophy because of the idea of vulnerability. But if someone has to go on a mission or travel away from the mate, it is expected of each of the mates to take a surrogate. When one is chosen as a surrogate in the Orion civilization, it's a tremendous honor and privilege. There is no competition between surrogates and primary mates. Again, the entire dynamic is a result of the structure of their society. When you're chosen as a surrogate - and you choose to be a surrogate, because it's definitely a two-way street - the relationship becomes as mates, but there is an understanding that the surrogate relationship is temporary. This surrogate relationship is for the purpose of releasing energy through sexuality, but also through nonsexual intimacy, to release the energy of conflict, to release emotional energy. So you can see that the entire expression of relationships was from your point of view perhaps a little limiting, but from their point of view extremely fulfilling.

There were some situations of group marriage that were usually temporary. If one mate was killed, for instance, another mated couple may take in the remaining spouse temporarily to act as surrogates until that spouse finds another mate. But generally speaking there is a lot of rigidity. They did find it to be extremely satisfying for their civilization.

One thing we would like to say here, which also points out the difference between you and the Orions, is that the Orions do not know the concept of sexual fantasy. They are extremely disciplined in their mentality. Because of this, they repress fantasy, for fantasy simply does not exist. Fantasy with someone you saw walking down the street, for instance, does not exist. That is an undisciplined thought. Through eons of time they have been disciplining themselves, and those types of thoughts were simply less and less necessary. So the closest thing to an Orion fantasy would be a female thinking about when her mate is coming home, thinking about how nice it will be to take the mate in her arms, etc. Any fantasy or any thought of intimate expression can only be expressed - even in thought - in the direction of the mate. This is not anything that is imposed on them, so it's not a repression of anything. It's simply the way they are.

Let's stop for a minute to ask if there's something you have a comment or question about.

Q: Is it totally a cultural thing? Or has it been encoded in their genetics after awhile?

It is encoded in their genetics after awhile, yes. Experience does change genetics. So it would depend on which period of time. The Orion civilization was many, many thousands of years long, so it would depend on which era you're talking about as to how genetically coded it was. During the times of the intense conflict, before the conflict was resolved, there was a lot of genetic change. When the conflict was eventually resolved and they had to learn to live differently, societally speaking, they started thinking of different ways to express their relationships. But that was a difficult one. Because they did not have the idea of fantasy outside of the idea of mates, they moved very slowly. But, yes, it is eventually genetically encoded.

Q: What about their glandular system and the way they react to stress? Does that have anything to do with the way the react to their sexuality, how they're excited?

We have talked in the past about this and Akbar has given the information in the book. However, there are basically three different types of sexual expression that the Orions used with their mates: One is for procreation; one is for exchange of intimacy; and the other is the expression of sexuality as a raw energy form. When one is under stress, that is the way the stress is released.

Q: I was thinking about how they had to learn to control their stress reactions because of the conflict.

After awhile it's no longer control - it's second nature. Now, those of you who are familiar with some of the Star Trek scenarios, we will compare this idea to that of the Vulcan. The Vulcan is repressing; it takes a force to repress the emotionality. The Orions have gotten to the point where they are not repressing. It is simply the way they've rewired themselves to channel emotional energy. It is channeled through discipline and released through sexuality. This is why it is of primary importance that each Orion have a mate.

You on your planet have a combination of sexual attitudes - some from Orion and some from other civilizations. But you will find that in history on your planet during wartime, marriage rates increase. We do not know if this has been studied or not on your planet, but you will find that mated relationships become very important during wartime. This is a direct connection to what we are talking about regarding the channeling of certain primal energies. So if any of you wish to examine that further, you may do some research. During times of peace other things are looked at, because there are other ways of channeling energy. You don't have to be as disciplined.

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